DVD Contents - DISC #5
- UNDER THE WIRE - QUALIFICATION
- How attraction, your vibe, and interest work like a car's engine
- Why the best technique with women is NOT technique, it's...
- How attraction and qualification work together...
- How women qualify men - and why they MUST
- How the approach experience differs for men and women
- What you show her by approaching
- The vital element of approach that most men do not use that gives you ultimate control
- How to avoid giving your Alpha Power away when you talk with women
- How women read you and your hidden intent
- Why men evaluate women visually
- What physical indicators men are looking for
- What "reverse" qualification is, and how it kills your self-esteem
- The best venue strategy to keep your attitude safe and healthy
- When qualification begins
- The one thing men think a woman needs to know, but doesn't
- The things that men do to start women screening them out
- The STF Model for understanding the three levels of communication
- Where true social power is developed
- How to dramatically improve your ability to understand and attract others
- Understanding what a woman is really thinking under the surface when she just wants to be friends, or when you ask her out...
- How to stay "in the running" with a woman for as long as necessary
- The Number One attitude you must communicate to women
- How to communicate your status on a subconscious level
- The "You'd already be mine" disqualifier and how it works
- What messages you need to communicate with your words and body language to lower a woman's defenses
- How to approach and NOT give your interest or power away
- Why you MUST learn how to play games - the right way!
- How to establish connection and social proof
- How to reverse a woman's qualification process and get women to prove their value to you and your standards
- How you can be "impolite" to attract a woman's interest
- Why going "under the wire" is more trusting and authentic than trying to "prove" yourself to women
- The five steps to demonstrate your confidence and effectively approach any woman
- Live demonstrations of the "Under the Wire" method of talking with women
- The one tone you must never use in your first conversations with women - and most guys do it!
- The "Downhill Slide" in conversations - how to avoid that plummet into boredom when you talk with women
- How to build rapport by finding "hooks" in conversation
- The first "move" you must make when meeting women in any social setting
- The "Positive Conversation" rule to break a woman's negative state
- Why you should never try to change a woman's mood - and what to do instead
- The 3 steps of qualification questions to choose the women that are truthful and sincere
- The 3 Essential steps to an effective approach in ANY location
- LIVE PICKUP DEMONSTRATIONS
- How to establish social proof
- Recognizing the polite women
- Figuring out how to open a group
- When she throws out the "Boyfriend Bomb" - Why she does it, and how to handle it
- Fixing mistakes in energy level in the approach
- The most important element in every social interaction
- Correcting mistakes in body language and vibe
- Who you should pay attention to first in the approach
- How women will figure out if you're running "pickup" or you're sincere
- When to bring in conversation with the other women in the group
- The "YAWN" response in an approach, and how to avoid it
- The difference between a real attraction conversation and when she's just being polite
- Other signals to watch for in an approach
- How to calibrate your energy level so that you match your environment
- How to handle a low-energy or negative woman
- Your first priority "question" in every approach
- Using a "pattern interrupt" for negative conversations
- Examples of humorous deflection to steer the conversation
- How you know when you've lost your inner game
- The most common test question that guys flunk during the approach - and how to pass it with flying colors
- How to talk about your "ex" so that you look the best
- Carlos demonstrates approaches in various situations and how to be "cool"
- How to demonstrate "ownership" of the environment
- How to persist in conversation to find your "hook point"
- What to watch out for in "teasing"
- When you're likely to "over-tease" and how to avoid it
- Using praise to raise EVERYONE'S value - not lower it!
- How to roll with unexpected twists in conversation
- Handling a "mixed" group where there may be men with women
- How to handle the "Alpha" woman of the group
- Using Authenticity in the approach to generate stronger attraction
- How to handle the guy that tries to bust your game
- Creating the "physical bridge" to avoid hostility
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