DVD Contents - DISC #5

  • UNDER THE WIRE - QUALIFICATION
  • How attraction, your vibe, and interest work like a car's engine
  • Why the best technique with women is NOT technique, it's...
  • How attraction and qualification work together...
  • How women qualify men - and why they MUST
  • How the approach experience differs for men and women
  • What you show her by approaching
  • The vital element of approach that most men do not use that gives you ultimate control
  • How to avoid giving your Alpha Power away when you talk with women
  • How women read you and your hidden intent
  • Why men evaluate women visually
  • What physical indicators men are looking for
  • What "reverse" qualification is, and how it kills your self-esteem
  • The best venue strategy to keep your attitude safe and healthy
  • When qualification begins
  • The one thing men think a woman needs to know, but doesn't
  • The things that men do to start women screening them out
  • The STF Model for understanding the three levels of communication
  • Where true social power is developed
  • How to dramatically improve your ability to understand and attract others
  • Understanding what a woman is really thinking under the surface when she just wants to be friends, or when you ask her out...
  • How to stay "in the running" with a woman for as long as necessary
  • The Number One attitude you must communicate to women
  • How to communicate your status on a subconscious level
  • The "You'd already be mine" disqualifier and how it works
  • What messages you need to communicate with your words and body language to lower a woman's defenses
  • How to approach and NOT give your interest or power away
  • Why you MUST learn how to play games - the right way!
  • How to establish connection and social proof
  • How to reverse a woman's qualification process and get women to prove their value to you and your standards
  • How you can be "impolite" to attract a woman's interest
  • Why going "under the wire" is more trusting and authentic than trying to "prove" yourself to women
  • The five steps to demonstrate your confidence and effectively approach any woman
  • Live demonstrations of the "Under the Wire" method of talking with women
  • The one tone you must never use in your first conversations with women - and most guys do it!
  • The "Downhill Slide" in conversations - how to avoid that plummet into boredom when you talk with women
  • How to build rapport by finding "hooks" in conversation
  • The first "move" you must make when meeting women in any social setting
  • The "Positive Conversation" rule to break a woman's negative state
  • Why you should never try to change a woman's mood - and what to do instead
  • The 3 steps of qualification questions to choose the women that are truthful and sincere
  • The 3 Essential steps to an effective approach in ANY location

  • LIVE PICKUP DEMONSTRATIONS
  • How to establish social proof
  • Recognizing the polite women
  • Figuring out how to open a group
  • When she throws out the "Boyfriend Bomb" - Why she does it, and how to handle it
  • Fixing mistakes in energy level in the approach
  • The most important element in every social interaction
  • Correcting mistakes in body language and vibe
  • Who you should pay attention to first in the approach
  • How women will figure out if you're running "pickup" or you're sincere
  • When to bring in conversation with the other women in the group
  • The "YAWN" response in an approach, and how to avoid it
  • The difference between a real attraction conversation and when she's just being polite
  • Other signals to watch for in an approach
  • How to calibrate your energy level so that you match your environment
  • How to handle a low-energy or negative woman
  • Your first priority "question" in every approach
  • Using a "pattern interrupt" for negative conversations
  • Examples of humorous deflection to steer the conversation
  • How you know when you've lost your inner game
  • The most common test question that guys flunk during the approach - and how to pass it with flying colors
  • How to talk about your "ex" so that you look the best
  • Carlos demonstrates approaches in various situations and how to be "cool"
  • How to demonstrate "ownership" of the environment
  • How to persist in conversation to find your "hook point"
  • What to watch out for in "teasing"
  • When you're likely to "over-tease" and how to avoid it
  • Using praise to raise EVERYONE'S value - not lower it!
  • How to roll with unexpected twists in conversation
  • Handling a "mixed" group where there may be men with women
  • How to handle the "Alpha" woman of the group
  • Using Authenticity in the approach to generate stronger attraction
  • How to handle the guy that tries to bust your game
  • Creating the "physical bridge" to avoid hostility